This is the first time I’ve ever created a fundraiser. I’ve donated to many, and love that through this site I’ve been able to feel like I’ve helped those in need in some tiny way.
But on this day, I write this to humbly ask for love and help for my Dad. We lost my incredible Mom on June 6. The loss is both shocking and completely devastating in every way. My Mom was a beautiful force of nature. Kind and open and so loving to all she met. She and my Dad were together for 52 years and celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary just a couple of months ago. They were soulmates — different in their approach to life, but compatible because of that. My Dad said to me yesterday that Mom taught him about heart and he tried to teach her about logic.
My parents have always been the kind of people who give quietly and generously—whether it was time, resources, or support, they offered it without hesitation and never asked for anything in return. They’ve shown up for so many people, and now it’s our turn to show up for my dad.
My Mom didn’t have a life insurance policy and my Dad still works. He has spent the better part of a year doing two full time roles — taking care of my Mom and working to support them as well. The cost of things when someone passes, as well as the financial stress of life after losing your beloved partner, is the last thing we want my Dad to have to worry about.
My Mom was the light in our lives. She was the laughter and the heart for all of us. We will never be the same without her.
She & my Dad have spent their lives treating people with such kindness and love. My Dad would never ask for this himself. But I will ask, humbly. Because he deserves that love he’s given (that both of them gave) to come back to him.
With all of my love and gratitude,
Maya Ackley
